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intimacy coaching

Collaborating with individuals and creatives to craft authentic and empowering intimate experiences.

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About Aaron Courtland Soper

Intimacy
director & coordinator

LIVE PERFORMANCES | STAGE | TV & FILM

Since 2016, I've been dedicated to creating safe, consensual, and empowering spaces as a multi-cultural Intimacy Professional. My commitment to this work is strengthened by my professional training and development, including the completion of the IDC Accelerator Program (40+ hours) in 2025. As a married, gay man and a close ally of the LGBTQ+ community, I deeply understand the power of commitment, authentic representation, healthy dialogue, and effective communication in building sustainable bonds and connections.​

I collaborate with individuals and creatives across all spectrums to bring forth intimate stories that resonate, inspire, and transform. From the stage to the screen, I specialize in crafting intimate experiences that are both emotionally resonant and technically sound. I work closely with individuals to develop and execute intimate scenes that are safe, respectful, and artistically fulfilling.

I strive to create a world where consent is celebrated, respected, and where intimacy can be authentically portrayed. Together, we'll illuminate the power of human connection for a healthier world.

SoPerfect Life Coach Aaron Courtland Soper

IDC PROFESSIONAL
AARON COURTLAND SOPER

Intimacy Professional

What does an Intimacy Professional offer?


As a Certified Intimacy Professional, Aaron Courtland Soper will ensure that intimate scenes are executed with safety, respect, and artistic integrity. By providing guidance, support, and creative collaboration, Aaron empowers individuals and creatives to bring forth powerful and transformative intimate stories. Whether it's film, TV, live performance, or an intimacy workshop, Aaron's expertise in creating safe, consensual, and authentic on-set environments guarantees a positive and productive experience for all involved.

Video Editors

Intimacy Coordinator

Whether your scenes deal with nudity, sex, kink, LGBTQIA+ topics, or any other intimate subject matter, I’ll ensure a smooth and safe process while elevating the artistic vision.

Film Slate Marker

Intimacy Director

As an Intimacy Director, I provide guidance and support to actors and directors to ensure that intimate scenes are executed with safety, respect, and artistic integrity. My expertise lies in creating a collaborative and supportive environment where performers can explore complex emotional and physical dynamics.

Actress on a Stage

Intimacy Choreographer

By providing clear communication, detailed choreography, and a supportive environment, I empower performers to bring their characters to life with authenticity and confidence. Whether it's a passionate embrace, a tender touch, or a more explicit scene, I work closely with actors and directors to ensure that every moment is executed with precision and respect.

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Collaborations

Collaborations
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Dearly Departed

by David Bottrell & Jessie Jones

Directed by

Aaron Whitehead 🎭 Mariemont Players at Walton Creek Theater in Cincinnati Ohio. 13 Total Show Dates:

January 12 - 29, 2023 | Intimacy Coordinator Aaron Courtland Soper

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Deathtrap

by Ira Levin

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Directed by Jerry Wiesenhahn 🎭 Mariemont Players at Walton Creek Theater in Cincinnati Ohio. 13 Total Show Dates:

March 7-24, 2024 | Intimacy Coordinator Aaron Courtland Soper

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Boeing Boeing​

by Marc Camoletti

Translated by Beverley Cross & Francis Evans

Directed by Mark Femia 🎭 Mariemont Players at Walton Creek Theater in Cincinnati Ohio. 13 Total Show Dates:

May 2-19, 2024 | Intimacy Coordinator Aaron Courtland Soper

Clybourne Park

By Bruce Norris

Directed by Dan Maloney 🎭 Mariemont Players at Walton Creek Theater in Cincinnati Ohio. 13 Total Show Dates:

September 5 - 22, 2024 | Intimacy Coordinator Aaron Courtland Soper

Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde

Adapted by Jeffrey Hatcher
from the novella Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde by Robert Louis Stevenson

Directed by jef brown 🎭 Mariemont Players at Walton Creek Theater in Cincinnati Ohio. 13 Total Show Dates:

October 31 - November 17, 2024 | Intimacy Coordinator Aaron Courtland Soper

Cat on a Hot Tin Roof

by Tennesse Wiliams

Directed by Dee Anne Bryll

 🎭 Mariemont Players at Walton Creek Theater in Cincinnati Ohio. 13 Total Show Dates:

January 9th - 26th, 2025 | Intimacy Coordinator Aaron Courtland Soper

Experience

Experience

2022 - 2024

Intimacy Directors & Coordinators (IDC Professionals)

Level 1 - Foundations of Intimacy | (Online) September 20, 2022

Level 2 - Applications of Intimacy & Consent | (Online) July 12, 2023

Intimacy Professional Accelerator Program | (Virtual)

April 2024 - February 2025 (Completed the IDC Accelerator Program (40+ hours of training)

2021 - 2022

Tantra 4 Gay Men

Practitioner and Facilitator | In-Person & Virtual Workshops for Men provided through the Tantra Love Academy Online (2021 - 2022) 

2020 - 2021

The New Body Electric School

Taoist Eroticism: An Experiential Journey led by Craig Cullinane | Virtual (November - December 2020)

Celebrating Body Erotic Workshop led by Craig Cullinane | Camp Buckwood, Indiana (November 2021)

2016

Authentic Eros

Authentic Eros Workshop in Saratoga Springs lead by Kai Ehrhardt | Upper Lake California (April 15 - 17, 2016)

Contact

SoPerfect Coaching | Aaron Courtland Soper

Certified Intimacy Professional

Current Location: Midwest - Ohio. USA

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