SAFE BOUNDARIES • POWERFUL CONNECTIONS
Choreographing Intimacy for Stage, Screen & Life
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Empowering professional storytellers and conscious partners to choreograph intimacy with precision and heart.
Intimacy Coordinator
& ENM Coach
INTIMACY DIRECTION | ENM COACHING | GLOBAL EDUCATION
Since 2016, I have dedicated my career to designing safe, consensual, and electrifying spaces for human connection. As a multi-cultural Intimacy Professional and IDC-trained Coordinator (Accelerator '25), I specialize in choreographing authentic moments—whether for characters on a screen or partners in a relationship.
As a married, gay man, I understand that sustainable bonds aren't found; they are built. I bridge the gap between professional storytelling and personal growth, using the technical tools of Intimacy Direction to help individuals and couples navigate Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) with confidence.
I don't just talk about connection; I give you the script to create it. From directing on set to facilitating global coaching cohorts, my work transforms vague intentions into actionable agreements. Together, we will move beyond simple communication and start choreographing the life you want.
Intimacy Coordinator
& ENM Coach
AARON COURTLAND SOPER
Does your relationship feel like a movie where everyone has lost the script? We often confuse love with telepathy. We hope our partners can read our minds, and when they can't, we call it a disaster. But without a map, "winging it" in Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) usually leads to chaos, confusion, and burnout.
It is time to stop hoping for a better relationship and start directing one. You don't have to wait for the next coaching cohort to fix your relationship. Master the logistics of Ethical Non-Monogamy today with our complete, self-paced course.
What You Walk Away With:
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Skills: The ability to listen, request, and repair without spiraling.
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Structure: A literal schedule and framework for managing your Polycule.
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Confidence: The "Director Energy" to ask for exactly what you need.
⚠️ IMPORTANT NOTE: This is a psychoeducational coaching course focused on forward-moving skills and strategy. This is NOT group therapy. We do not process past trauma or provide clinical diagnosis. We focus on designing your future.
Stop Guessing. Start Directing.
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What does an Intimacy Professional offer?
Precision, Safety, and Artistry. As a Certified Intimacy Professional, Aaron Courtland Soper ensures that vulnerable interactions—whether scripted for the screen or navigated in real life—are executed with safety and integrity. He provides the "technical choreography" for emotional moments, empowering actors and partners alike to take risks without fear. Whether on a film set or in a coaching session, Aaron’s expertise guarantees that intimacy is not just safe and consensual, but intentional and transformative.
Intimacy Coordinator
Whether your scenes deal with nudity, sex, kink, LGBTQIA+ topics, or any other intimate subject matter, I’ll ensure a smooth and safe process while elevating the artistic vision.
Intimacy Director
As an Intimacy Director, I provide guidance and support to actors and directors to ensure that intimate scenes are executed with safety, respect, and artistic integrity. My expertise lies in creating a collaborative and supportive environment where performers can explore complex emotional and physical dynamics.
Intimacy Choreographer
By providing clear communication, detailed choreography, and a supportive environment, I empower performers to bring their characters to life with authenticity and confidence. Whether it's a passionate embrace, a tender touch, or a more explicit scene, I work closely with actors and directors to ensure that every moment is executed with precision and respect.
creative
Collaborations
Dearly Departed
by David Bottrell & Jessie Jones
Directed by
Aaron Whitehead 🎭 Mariemont Players at Walton Creek Theater in Cincinnati Ohio. 13 Total Show Dates:
January 12 - 29, 2023 | Intimacy Coordinator Aaron Courtland Soper
Deathtrap
by Ira Levin
Directed by Jerry Wiesenhahn 🎭 Mariemont Players at Walton Creek Theater in Cincinnati Ohio. 13 Total Show Dates:
March 7-24, 2024 | Intimacy Coordinator Aaron Courtland Soper
Boeing Boeing
by Marc Camoletti
Translated by Beverley Cross & Francis Evans
Directed by Mark Femia 🎭 Mariemont Players at Walton Creek Theater in Cincinnati Ohio. 13 Total Show Dates:
May 2-19, 2024 | Intimacy Coordinator Aaron Courtland Soper
Clybourne Park
By Bruce Norris
Directed by Dan Maloney 🎭 Mariemont Players at Walton Creek Theater in Cincinnati Ohio. 13 Total Show Dates:
September 5 - 22, 2024 | Intimacy Coordinator Aaron Courtland Soper
Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde
Adapted by Jeffrey Hatcher
from the novella Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde by Robert Louis Stevenson
Directed by jef brown 🎭 Mariemont Players at Walton Creek Theater in Cincinnati Ohio. 13 Total Show Dates:
October 31 - November 17, 2024 | Intimacy Coordinator Aaron Courtland Soper
Cat on a Hot Tin Roof
by Tennesse Wiliams
Directed by Dee Anne Bryll
🎭 Mariemont Players at Walton Creek Theater in Cincinnati Ohio. 13 Total Show Dates:
January 9th - 26th, 2025 | Intimacy Coordinator Aaron Courtland Soper
Recent IC Work Includes:
2026| Rabbit Hole at MPI in Cincinnati, OH
2026 | A Streetcar Named Desire at Footlighters Theater in NKY
2025 | The Rainmaker at MPI in Cincinnati, OH
2025 | The Sign in Sidney Brusteins Window at MPI in Cincinnati, OH
Experience
2022 - 2025
Intimacy Directors & Coordinators (IDC Professionals)
Level 1 - Foundations of Intimacy | (Online) September 20, 2022
Level 2 - Applications of Intimacy & Consent | (Online) July 12, 2023
Intimacy Professional Accelerator Program | (Virtual)
April 2024 - February 2025 (Completed the IDC Accelerator Program (40+ hours of training)
2021 - 2022
Tantra 4 Gay Men
Practitioner and Facilitator | In-Person & Virtual Workshops for Men provided through the Tantra Love Academy Online (2021 - 2022)
2020 - 2021
The New Body Electric School
Taoist Eroticism: An Experiential Journey led by Craig Cullinane | Virtual (November - December 2020)
Celebrating Body Erotic Workshop led by Craig Cullinane | Camp Buckwood, Indiana (November 2021)
2016
Authentic Eros
Authentic Eros Workshop in Saratoga Springs lead by Kai Ehrhardt | Upper Lake California (April 15 - 17, 2016)
SoPerfect Coaching | Aaron Courtland Soper
Certified Intimacy Professional
Current Location: Midwest - Ohio. USA
*Contact for Availability
Available for Hire Domestic and Abroad